Summer Events - Garbage Field Trip

A little catch up...

We had one of our most surprisingly enjoyable field trip to kick off the summer. Jen organized a trip for us to visit... wait for it... the Garbage Company! Bend Garbage and Recycling welcomed us into their recycling center and put on a wonderful display for our wide-eyed preschoolers.

First, we got to see a display of how the trucks work to pick up both garbage cans and dumpsters. Then, the kids each got to take a turn in the driver seat and practice honking the horn. We finished up with a tour of the recycling area, watching the trucks, fork lifts, and compacted recycling piled floor to ceiling.



More than the events themselves, the staff at BG&C were so enthusiastic and welcoming. They arranged the whole tour just for our group and we even ended up with the president of the company out with us taking pictures (like those below) and answering questions. It really was awesome. Who would have thought that a trip to look at garbage would be such a hit?!

Lagging

The boys had their "well child" doctor visits this week. Owen's three year went great. He's well ahead on many developmental milestones - "Does your child jump with two feet?" As Scott says, "How about, 'Does your child do 360 degree jump spins with two feet?'" I also laughed at the question: "Does your child ask 'Why?'" Does he ever!

Josh's 9 month visit was a combo illness follow-up. We spent last Saturday in Urgent Care to discover that Josh had infections and compacted wax in both ears. That would help explain the prior two weeks of minimal eating, refusing the bottle, and micro naps. (I guess he wasn't teething after all!)

Good news: Josh's ears look fine and he's doing pretty well on the development milestones.
Bad news: Josh is LAGGING, to say the least, when it comes to growth.
9 month stats: 15 lb, 4 oz and 25.75 inches

He's not even very close to the 3rd percentile line in either aspect. The doctor said the weight is partly attributed to his illness, but the height is "concerning" (I don't think she said "alarming," but I don't quite remember.) because it indicates a longer term calorie deficit. It's a little odd to hear your doctor say, with great sincerity, "We really want to see him up on that 3rd percentile line."

For perspective, I looked back at Owen's stats, and it's not pretty. At 6 months, Josh was trending ahead - he had 8 oz (1/2 a pound) on Owen at that point. At this appointment, Josh was a full 1 1/2 pounds LESS than Owen was at nine months. Owen was never a "big" eating baby, but he managed to put on 2 more pounds between 6 and 9 months than Josh did (and Owen was still spitting up dozens of times a day during that time). Since Owen's height/weight put him in the 5th percentile, it tells us that Josh needs to quickly gain 10% of his body weight and nearly a full inch to get back on the growth charts. Yikes!

What to do? Our doctor advised us to focus on high fat/protein foods (dairy!) and shoot for 6 meals a day. The prospect is daunting, to say the least. Does 5 puffs count as a meal? Because that's what I was able to sneak into Josh's mouth at the pool on Friday.

I am trying not to be stressed about it, and I keep telling myself that we just need to do our best for the next month and see if Josh can rebound. But, it's only been two days and I already feel a bit overwhelmed trying to scheme up how to get more calories in this kid. He just doesn't EAT anything. I felt like our whole day was a battle of constantly trying different foods in different settings - with only shaking heads and angry screams to show for our efforts. We've done all the standard pureed fruits and veggies and then finger foods: Cheerios, puffs, bananas, avocado, cooked carrots, zucchini, potatoes, blueberries, watermelon, cantaloupe, peaches, pears, pirate booty, rice, toast, pancakes, waffles, sweet potato fries, hummus, graham crackers and saltines, beans. So far, the only foods he seems willing to eat are pureed squash (we can usually get 5-6 bites of that one!), crackers, and corn... one kernel at a time.

One bite of Ricotta cheese resulted in horrid screams yesterday. I'm hopeful that some full fat yogurt will be a winner, but Scott couldn't even get Josh interested in chocolate frosting last night. Of course, give Josh a piece of newspaper or an envelope and he will chow down. What gives?
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So, after I wrote all that, Scott and I had a chat about Josh and what we can do to get some more weight on. Scott was able to talk me off the ledge and suggest that rather than stressing about 6 meals a day, we first try just getting Josh to eat SOMETHING 3 times a day. Once we figure out some foods that work, we can up the frequency. So what if he only eats pureed squash and corn kernels? If he ate those two items 3 times a day, we would be making progress. We're basically going to take a step backwards, stop pushing the table foods, and revive the purees. 4 or 5 bites of pureed carrots is better than no bites of table food.

So, this afternoon, I'm back in the kitchen with my "Blender Baby Food" book and renewed energy. If Josh likes corn, then I'll make creamed corn. We'll restock the freezer with squash and carrot combos mixed with extra butter, cheeses, cream, and yogurt.

Five bites of cherry-banana oatmeal this morning? Awesome. One tablespoon of blueberry-banana with rice cereal and 1/2 a saltine for lunch? Fantastic. One sweet potato fry and a bite of carrot-broccoli puree at dinner... not so great, but all together, that's more food than Josh ate in the last two days combined.

Baby steps baby!

Birthday Party

We celebrated Owen's birthday with a joint park party with Will and Owen S. That's 3 boys turning 3! We had the party at the same park where we had Owen's first birthday, and it was great to watch all our friends run around and play - soccer, bikes, playground, and cupcakes!

All 3 birthday boys have the exact same bike!

Nana managed a cranky, napless Josh.

How great that our kids are old enough to do the swings on their own. Can you believe these two boys were both 5 pound babies? Not anymore!

These three boys were in the pool together before they were born. Now we can't keep up with them on the bikes!
We said, only in Bend would you have the spread of cupcakes - regular, vegan, and gluten free. A little something for everyone!
These boys are the first in our group to turn 3. These joint birthdays are so fun!

Owen at 3

Owen turned 3 at the beginning of July. I can't believe we have a 3 year old, but I also can't believe how much Owen has matured recently. Due to a rotating illness floating through our family, Scott and I have each had some one-on-one time with Owen and we both were amazed at how much he really is a little boy. He thinks ahead, carries conversations, and is full, interactive, involved member of our family. We are loving age 3!

Funny quotes from Owen at age 3:

"Good job mom. You didn't spill the milk. I am supervising, aren't I?"

He is certainly getting creative about prolonging bed time. As I walked out the door recently, he said: "I want you to stay in my room and bother me."

"I want be mean to Cisco. I want put horns on his head and put him on the cross, so he will die, like Jesus."

"When I am 3, I will use the potty. And you will wipe my bottom."

"Mom rhymes with boss."

"Dang it!" - though he thinks this term should be used when something is totally awesome... "Mom! I scored a goal!" "Great job Owen." "Yes! Dang it!"


Other things about Owen at 3:
He makes up and tells stories - they always start "once upon a time" and end with "theeeee end."

He sings along with our kids music CDs - currently playing: Sack Lunch by Recess Monkey.

Owen recently taught me a new song he learned at school. I was amazed that he could sing and do the motions well enough for me to understand it!

We always get comments about how he's such a good talker for a 3 year old.

He repeats lines from his favorite movies and acts out scenes with his toys. Cars, Madagascar, and Veggie Tales are favorite movies. Diego and Sesame Street are favorite TV shows. We try to limit TV to an hour a day with the occasional movie on the weekends.

Owen loves crafts and takes great pride in his work. Just this week, he really mastered the use of scissors.

He is a HELPER - he loves helping cook in the kitchen and can already tell me how to make his favorite - PB&J! - and will select foods from the pantry or fridge for snacks and such.

He plays independently, especially with his legos or cars. I can always here him telling stories about what the cars are doing.

Owen is a book lover - hooray! We go to the library every 3 weeks, play in the kids area, and check-out 5 or 6 books. Favorites are "Harry and the Dinosaur" series and "The Bear and His Boy."

He likes to "read" books and has quite a few memorized. The other day, he flipped pages of a library book and told a whole story to Josh after we had only read it twice! He also knows nearly every story in The Beginner Bible.

He loves talking to people, but gets pretty shy when they talk back or initiate a conversation with him.

Owen's favorite game in the car is "You take a Guess." Anytime I ask him a question (Ex: "What sports will you play at your class today?" or "What's kind of snack will Ms. Stephanie have at school?") Owen answers the question and then yells, "Now You Take a Guess!" and we're off, back and forth, taking smart or silly guesses until we reach our destination.

Owen is an amazing big brother. We feel incredibly lucky that he continues to LOVE Josh and doesn't take out his frustration the baby. This morning, he turned to Josh and said, "Josh, you're my be-est friend!"